A woman was mortified and had her confidence completely knocked when she received a list of ‘tips’ on how she could improve herself by a Tinder date – three months after their meeting.
Kimberley Latham-Hawkesford, 24, was sent 15 pieces of advice out of the blue, including that she should lose weight, change her make-up and wear a lower cut top, report’s Mirror UK.
She matched with the man on Tinder and they decided to meet at a local coffee shop. Things went so well they decided to drive to a restaurant and grab some food.
But Kimberley, who is from Morecambe, UK, realised he probably wasn’t ‘The One’ when he started asking if she would consider plastic surgery and kicked off when she offered to pay, showing her his bank balance to show how much money he had, reports LadBible .
They said their goodbyes and she didn’t think much more of it, until she received an unbelievable message out of the blue three months later.
The man says he wanted to explain why he didn’t message her after the date, revealing he believed she “could have made the date much better”.
He then lists 15 things she could do to better herself, saying he “might consider” another date with her if she follows them all.
He starts with her appearance.
He starts by saying she would “look incredible” if she lost some weight, suggesting she tries to drop about a stone.
Next it’s her skin, saying: “A bit of fake tan wouldn’t hurt.”
He then says: “You have quite big boobs so you should show off your cleavage more.”
He then told her to wear clothes which “suit her figure”, saying: “Just so I’m not embarrassed to be seen with you.”
The man then moves onto her hair, telling her to dye it a natural colour and get extensions.
He also tells her to look more natural and wear less make-up, but also says she should consider getting lip filler.
After shaming her appearance, he then shockingly goes on to tell her she needs to be more confident and has a go at her for not kissing him on the first date.
He writes: “The fact you take things slow makes you look like a prude. I didn’t get a kiss which messed with my ego. Be more sensitive to others’ feelings.
“When we got food, I know you got a salad but having full fat coke is more calories you don’t need.”
In the final five points he attacks her personality and tells her to stop talking about her past as he “doesn’t care about it”.
He accuses her of not having a sense of humour as she didn’t laugh at his jokes and has a go at her for not giving him a compliment.
He writes: “You just seemed a bit stuck up. Sort your personality out.
“You made me feel shit when you offered to pay. It’s like you thought I didn’t have enough money after telling you how much is in my account.”
Kimberley told LadBible : “At first I was absolutely mortified and it killed my confidence, but the more I read it the funnier it became. I couldn’t understand how a guy could say such things to a woman.
“My only tip for him is to respect women as his behaviour is disgusting.”
Source: Mirror UK